January 7th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Release The Hound!
This is taking puppy play to a whole new level:
From an old Dofantasy comic called The Maid’s Leash: Into The Dungeon, by artist Deuce.
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January 6th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Don’t Take Her For Granted
While reading a lengthy and personal essay on the business of being a high-end escort, I found this fascinating little vignette:
Last Valentine’s Day, I was in a McDonald’s near my apartment. Valentine’s and Christmas and Easter are never big days in my business, at least with the guys who have money. I came there to drink some Coca-Cola and because the internet worked faster than in my apartment. I had bought myself flowers, daisies and violets. There was a couple sitting next to me and the girl said, “OMG, how cute are your flowers?” I was in a pretty good mood and I said to the guy, “Maybe it’s time to buy your girlfriend flowers,” and he said, “She’s okay without them.”
I’m not sure why, but that made me so mad. “Fuck you!” I said to the guy, and I left.
Fuck him, indeed.
(Yes, this is from one of the two sex-worker business articles that Violet Blue was recommending the other day.)
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January 4th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
A Sex Pillory In Every Bedroom
Bondage Blog says “every marital bedroom needs” one of these decorative sex pillories:
You can safely ignore the following-on “good for any wife” nonsense. If you can’t figure out what good it might do to put a husband (not necessarily your own) in one of these, this DVD (or this one) may help.
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January 4th, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Difficult Anal Insertion
I got an email with this .gif from someone who wishes to remain anonymous:
They wrote:
“This is pretty much how I felt when I tried to self-insert that milking stick you blogged about.“
I’m not sure whether to say “you’re welcome” or “so sorry”.
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January 3rd, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Doing Business In The Shadow Of The Pornocalypse
In her lengthy intro to a pair of business articles written by sex workers, Violet Blue writes about some of the business challenges she faces as an independent businesswoman in the business of writing about sex. I can’t speak to the challenges specifically faced by women, but there remain many resonances in this that are bitterly familiar to me, a man in the business of writing and blogging about sex and porn:
I’ll just put it this way: If it wasn’t for sex censorship by so many major companies, financial institutions, tools and platforms, I’d *only* have to face the typical set of challenges all women face who run their own business. The limitations of censorship, plus the danger of doing business with companies who routinely deal unfairly (and occasionally behave harmfully) to independent businesses/businesspeople (whose business might be sex-related), has absolutely hurt me as a businessperson.
That’s everything from having my name blacklisted in search engine autocompletes, to getting accounts revoked without actually breaking any rules, being disallowed to advertise (or take advertising) through everyday channels like AdSense, worrying payment processors and social media sites (and more) will delete my account, unable to plan around Amazon and Google who may de-list (or deep-six) sexuality searches without notice, being unable to do a Kickstarter or put an app about human sexuality in Apple or Google’s marketplaces, constantly being reported on sites I have accounts on simply because some people think what I do is wrong, not being able to use any of the decent mailing list companies to have a newsletter… I could go on.
I just write about sex. That’s it.
I’m not even a sex worker, a porn maker, nor have I ever been a porn performer – what they (mostly female entrepreneurs, natch) go through trying to run their businesses is so beyond unfair, it paralyzes me with anger sometimes to think about it.
So I have to approach business differently; none of the formulas – or even tools and services – available to everyday, independent women in business are actually available to me. I imagine that if the playing field were even, I might be as financially stable (or even thriving) as many of my friends are.
She’s not wrong. At least once a week I have some business notion in the adult space, and 99% of the time that notion doesn’t survive five minutes of serious thought. “That would be great, but there’s no reliable way to get paid without PayPal or credit cards.” “Awesome, but I can’t finance the start-up costs, not even with crowd-funding.” “How on earth could we market such a thing without access to social media?” “No way would that app ever get into the app stores.” Yes, there are workarounds and expensive middlemen (they do always seem to be men) and kludges and sneaky back doors and potential ways to bootstrap. Nothing is impossible, but in time it begins to feel like running a marathon in a fat-suit.
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January 2nd, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Shower Selfie
January 1st, 2015 -- by Bacchus
Taking The Waters
Those old hydrotherapy spa/bathhouse places were very popular, and I don’t think it was just the mineral water that kept them that way:
From the same series as this one.
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