September 9th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
The Horses Are Watching
But I don’t think they care very much about the fucking monkeys:
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September 8th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
Rough Sex For Whores: WTF?
This story makes me shake my head:
At one point the subject turned to sex and the difference between making love and fucking, and gentle and rough sex.
Mr. Suit was quite opinionated and said he thought that only whores liked rough sex.
After noticing that I had been kind of quiet for a bit he turned to me, put his hand on my leg, and asked me what was wrong.
As I gently but firmly removed his hand, I told him “ummmm, nothing’s really wrong, I just think that you spent a lot of money tonight taking a whore out to dinner, and she’s not gonna fuck you.”
The obvious part is, dude shot himself down by being fetish-negative and judgmental about rough sex before he took the elementary precaution of finding out how his dinner companion felt about it. Stupid!
Hardly the first time, though, that a man’s arrogant assumptions cost him in lost nookie opportunities.
But in my book, he committed double-extra-stupidity by using “whore” pejoratively. It’s one of those words — like “cunt” when it’s used as an insult — the utterance of which implies a huge package of the speaker’s bad attitudes toward women in general. Definitely not a word to trot out when you’re wining-and-dining!
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September 6th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
Dan Savage, Memetic Engineer
I wonder if there are genius grants for memetic engineers? Because Dan Savage deserves one. His ability to distill an important concept down into a phrase and then inject it into our collective consciousness like — no, on second thought, let’s eschew simile here — astonishes me every time I see him do it. From redefining “Santorum” years ago to blowing up twitter with #MyUnrealMarriage a few nights ago, he just never seems to stop.
Latest sighting: his “Good, Giving, and Game” mnemonic being used to explain, and even inspire, serious sexual research, as reported in Psychology Today:
GGG is a term coined by sex columnist Dan Savage to represent the qualities that he thinks makes a good sexual partner. GGG stands for ‘good, giving, and game.’ Think ‘good in bed,’ ‘giving of equal time and equal pleasure,’ and ‘game for anything–within reason.'” We know from previous research that people who are more motivated to respond to their partner’s needs (high in communal strength) report higher relationship satisfaction and feel more intrinsic joy after making a sacrifice for their partner. But, do the benefits of being ‘giving’ and ‘game’ translate to the sexual domain of a relationship as Dan Savage would suggest?
In a recent study, myself and my colleagues explored whether being motivated to meet your partner’s sexual needs is good for yourself…
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September 4th, 2012 -- by Bacchus
Panda Panties Are Awesome
The Nymph would totally buy/wear these panties, oh yes she would.
Via Kinky Delight.
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September 2nd, 2012 -- by Bacchus
Her Cameraman Hates Her
You really need to treat your team better, lady:
Update: A correspondent writes in that “it is from KOKI-TV in TUlsa, OK. BTW — Tulsa is in Tulsa County (where the “A C UNT”) in the shot comes from. See article (link below) from KOKI’s site with embedded clip. This shot appears approx. 27 seconds from the END of the clip — see http://www.fox23.com/news/local/story/Third-Rib-Crib-suspect-waives-right-to-trial/zqpxQRmDM0Ki13TZ9oON3w.cspx
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August 31st, 2012 -- by Bacchus
The Movies In Our Minds
From Spanking Blog, on internal narratives:
Doesn’t this look like (one of) the movies that would be playing quietly in your mind if you met a taxi driver with such epic breasts and that possibly-flirtatious smile?
Or maybe that’s just me. Ooopsie!
From Red Stripe Films.
The true skill — the skill too many men don’t cultivate sufficiently — lies in letting the movies play without the images bleeding through and becoming visible on your face. (There’s a school of philosophy arguing that one shouldn’t allow the movies to play at all. But I, in my hedonism, do not hew to it.)
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