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Coin Operated Boy Toy

Saturday, October 19th, 2024 -- by Bacchus

What we have here is Duchess Lex having a little genderbending fun with fifteen seconds of the lyrics to Coin-Operated Boy by The Dresden Dolls:

If you don’t get distracted by the Duchess’s on-screen captions, the actual lyric is:

Coin-operated boy
sitting on a shelf —
he is just a toy
but I turn him on…

The official music video and the whole song are rather fun too, especially if you have any kind of fetish for mechanical men, mannikins come to life, or extremely-well-behaved escort-bots.

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The Eternal Problem Of Porn Curation

Tuesday, August 13th, 2024 -- by Bacchus

I am a nut, and my nuttery takes several very narrow and specific shapes. One of those shapes is my eternal obsession with the problem of porn curation: how do we publish, distribute, discover, access, and preserve access to ephemeral erotic material in a world where #pornocalypse and its social cousins have denied independent porn creators most access to search, social media, and the payments system?

Thus when I saw a Mastodon post blurbing Miss Pearl’s latest blog post On Having Porn For Dommes in terms of the “curation and censorship problem” affecting such porn, I knew it would perforce be relevant to my interests.

Longtime readers know that my BDSM porn interests as displayed here on ErosBlog are dirt-common, with male-gaze M/f porn at the top of the list, followed by the usual substantial fraction of commercial F/f material and then by token amounts of F/m and M/m stuff. That said, the Femdom Resource blog (written by a male client and appreciator of pro dommes, but ranging widely across the femdom content space) is one of my frequently-linked favorites, and I have a long history of featuring nonprofessional or lifestyle femdom bloggers (like Bitchy Jones) on the rare occasion that I’ve been able to find them under the avalanche of cookie-cutter pro-domme “spam” (promotional) content that floods most available channels. O Miss Pearl (subtitle: “non-professional perspective femdom & kink, with awesome erotica”) was therefore an instant addition to the ErosBlog blogroll as soon as I saw it.

But what about the “domme gaze drought” (as she teased it on Mastodon) in Miss Pearls’ recent post?

It has been true for the entire lifetime of this blog that fictional depictions of dominant women are really limited, and most typically tailored to what subs are attracted to. Or being more precise, what a certain paying audience of sub men will purchase. This standard tends to depict dominance in women as a vocation performed for the benefit of subs (or their vulnerability and persecution fantasies) and is often gender regressive as heck.

Yup, that sounds right; this isn’t content that I actively search for, but I do watch for it (if that distinction makes sense) and I don’t see much of it.

Her wide-ranging post covers a lot of subtopics in plenty of detail, but I began crying my amens when I got to this part about the problems facing porn creators:

Let’s drop some of our illusions about porn and how it’s made.

Porn, contrary to the way we talk about it, is a marginalized industry, disproportionately queer, with most people not making much money. Artistic talent and skill are not evenly distributed – nevermind that you need to be a wizard at marketing, with a work ethic that is punishing on the body to make it as any kind of artist, sexy or not. That’s on top of an ever increasingly sanitized internet and the frankly censorship oriented nature of most payment providers and most publishing platforms.

Writing, illustration and modeling are also incredibly poorly paid, whether it’s R, E, or P. One of the first things consumers need to know is that the big names are lottery winner, and most stuff falls into the obscure outsider art and cottage industry level. People who create stuff are not trying to cater to the patriarchy to be willing agents of it, they are navigating razor thin profits, fussy platforms and content saturation of a competition that puts you at odds with not only every creator currently working right now, but every surviving work running back more than a thousand years. And every other possible way humans can amuse or occupy their time.

There follows a highly educational tour of the deep weeds of the curation problems faced by Miss Pearl’s specific porn genre of interest. I’m not dismissing any of that by failing to quote or summarize it here; you’ll want to read it yourself in any case. (Yes, dear readers, I am telling you, yet again, that you’ll need to clicky the damn linky. This is a 22-year-old blog; it can serve as social media, but it doesn’t do so without reader participation.) Miss Pearl calls for smart and aggressive curation of niche porn (the fans cheer), talks about the value of self-hosting (a subject long dear to my own heart), and concludes that domme-gaze porn “isn’t reaching the audience. It’s fragmented across different platforms, only has so much advertising and the market it might have doesn’t know it exists.”

In conclusion, Miss Pearl points out that making niche porn is a fiscally-irresponsible artistic act, and that we need to be better curators and better fans if we want to encourage it:

Someone who is an honest to goodness lifestyle domme for real and a good creator, if they are being fiscally responsible, is much better off making something else.

If you want to turn that around, we have to actually make more of a project of curation and sharing out of it, and you are simply going to have to be more assertive fans. You are also going to need to develop a lot more gentleness around the content you consume.

Indeed.

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Mean Maureen O’Hara

Tuesday, July 9th, 2024 -- by Bacchus

Maureen O’Hara is having entirely too much fun ripping the adhesive tape off of actor John Payne’s super-manly rib cage in this photo:

agony for John Payne as cruel nurse Maureen O'Hara gleefully rips the bandages off his torso, along with who knows how much chest hair

It’s said to be a scene from To The Shores Of Tripoli (1942). Do you suppose it was preemptive revenge for those famous cinema spankings she’d get in the 1960s?

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Patriotic Ass Worship

Wednesday, July 3rd, 2024 -- by Bacchus

Truly, what could be more patriotic and celebratory apple-pie-and-baseball wholesome than eating a leather-clad domme’s ass while she stands in front of a huge improperly-displayed American flag? Play ball, I say!

Man on his knees with his face buried in dommy mommy ass

closeup view of a femdom scene with a dominatrix and a submissive man who is worshipfully eating her ass while she tries to smother him

This kinky 4th of July goodness is from Freedom To Fuck at Kink.com.

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A Dominatrix A Day Keeps The Doctor Away?

Tuesday, March 19th, 2024 -- by Bacchus

I don’t know if actual evidence-based medical science remains on board with the pop-medicine notion that regular male orgasms are good for a man’s health, but of course most of us men believed that story the first time we heard it, because of its intuitive obviousness. If it also motivates the women who love us to attend more attentively to our ejaculatory needs, so much the better!

dominatrix gives her bondage sub a handjob ejaculation

A good man would never dabble in emotional blackmail, so “If you truly loved me, honey, you’d get jiggy with me every day” is forbidden from his seductive toolbox. And anyway, that’s no kind of rizz at all; it sounds desperate and manipulative, because it is. Remember: the chick has not been born who digs desperate and manipulative.

blindfolded submissive with a cord tied tightly around his dick oozes precum as his dominant mistress edges him endlessly

Meanwhile, if you’re the kind of man who enjoys the company of dominant ladies, or who haunts femdom websites to pursue the fantasy of female domination, you already know that whining about your need for regular orgasms cuts no onions with any of these stern and demanding women. However much your long term urogenital health might benefit from regular ejaculatory explosions, a dominatrix (even if or perhaps especially if she’s your spouse or partner) is going to be much more concerned about ensuring that your attitude is properly attentive and submissively desperate.

man being teased without orgasm by a gleeful dominatrix with a feather

She’s more likely to lock your cock in a cage and keep it there, letting it out to play only on special occasions or as a reward for especially good behavior.

strapped down and teased with his cock in a cage

I don’t have any statistics, but if you’ve got a woman in your life who concerns herself with your ejaculatory frequency, it’s more likely she wants to limit it (for the behavior benefits that she hopes to reap therefrom) than that she will eagerly conspire to guarantee your daily orgasms in hopes of ensuring the longevity of your prostate health.

handcuffed submissive writhes as a dominatrix sucks on his dick without letting him come

You should tremble, however, if you ever hook up with a woman so cruel and clever that she tries to do both at once. If she understands the arcane arts of edging, prostate massage, and ruined orgasms, you’re doomed to a long life of frustration… and of staying on your best behavior!

dominatrix milks unfortunate sub by manipulating his prostate until he has an ejaculation without an orgasm

Image credits, top to bottom: The busty domme giving a handjob to her bound male submissive is by 緋。奈 (PhI.Na). The gleeful woman with a tightly-tied cord around her sub’s huge cock is by Sparrow. The man on his knees with hands handcuffed behind his back who is about to blow a gasket because his mistress is torturing his cock with a feather is by Kamitora. The cock-caged man who is strapped down and ridden is by Sephiroth. The handcuffed man whose dominant tormenter is sucking his cock without relief is by Sei Shoujo. And the busty dominatrix with two fingers on a man’s prostate to milk him without hope of relief is by Ponkotta.

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Her Love Language: Accepting Acts Of Service

Wednesday, February 28th, 2024 -- by Bacchus

It’s not luck, so much as diligent training, that ensures our smug mistress has a man who speaks her love language:

a stern femdom mistress forces her submissive to lower himself onto a thick bumpy cock dildo before allowing him to lick her pussy the way she likes it

Artwork is by Andy.

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His Stern Mistress Sits On His Face

Friday, December 29th, 2023 -- by Bacchus

At first glance, this pic looks a bit like one of those depressing “wallet porn” photos from the first half of the 20th century. You know, the ones that featured grim-looking sex workers posing rigidly in a depressing brothel room.

face-sitting femdom woman stares directly into the camera while a man slowly smothers with his face buried in her pussy

However, the only thing this photo has in common with that genre is that the woman pictured is indeed a sex worker. This is photographer and sex worker Alizée Romy, in an untitled 2017 photo that appeared in her book Furie.

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Her Jizz Trophy

Thursday, November 2nd, 2023 -- by Bacchus

I’m not sure if our man is simply being well-behaved, or if his hands are bound behind his back to keep them out of her workspace. But either way, she has decided to take a triumphant photographic selfie-trophy of her excellent blowjob work:

femdom bondage blowjob as our triumphant fellatrix snaps a selfie of her mouth around his exploding dick and the cum he just spurted everywhere

Artist is Bow.

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Ladies’ Night, Femdom Style

Monday, May 29th, 2023 -- by Bacchus

Ladies’ night just hits different, when the ladies in question are all dommes. I mean, it’s just champagne with the girls, but the furniture is somewhat special:

several dominant women and dominatrixes sitting around celebrating with champagne in hand, with their feet up on submissive men being used as footstools and furniture

From Femdom Resource, where we learn that the photo was taken at the International Femdom Summit in Bucharest.

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Spicy Boys On Leashes

Friday, March 31st, 2023 -- by Bacchus

The Spice Girls were looking particularly glossy and fine in their kinky leather outfits the night they paraded these eager leashed gentlemen across the stage for a cheering crowd:

kneeling and crawling for the Spice Girls in their shiny leather dominatrix outfits

Paltego at Femdom Resource opines that this was the Spice Girls’ 2007 reunion tour, which is good enough for me.

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Let Him Shiver

Saturday, March 18th, 2023 -- by Bacchus

What did he do to piss her off? No matter, he’s not getting out of the cage until she stops being pissed anyway. Right now she’s chilly but has a hot beverage. He’s… just suffering. He better figure out how to make her happy again, because time is not on his side:

dominatrix sips hot coffee while her slave shivers in his cage on a cold snowy morning

Thanks to Paltego and his people, we know this is Princess Amber at Brat Princess.

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Two Ways Of Submission

Tuesday, March 14th, 2023 -- by Bacchus

One never knows what someone else means by a thing (well, not without asking them, anyway) but my take on this lyrical utterance is that it’s describing two very different styles of submission to dominant femmes:

You want her to step on you.

I want her to lie back on soft satin sheets, relax her weary muscles, and let herself melt while I slowly, delicately pleasure her until she forgets that the world exists.

We are not the same.

I suppose I imagine (based on no data beyond my intuition) that getting stepped on is most often a commercial thrill delivered by a dominatrix-style sex worker. But: even the most stereotypical porn-inflected dominatrix also has a private sex life. If she finds herself a pleasure sub who can and will deliver tender acts of exquisite sexual service, why shouldn’t she grab that by the hair with both hands?

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Jimmy “The Shoe Guy” Does Thanksgiving

Thursday, November 24th, 2022 -- by Bacchus

Let’s be honest. Thanksgiving dinner isn’t going well for our man Jimmy. His fiancé took him home to meet the family, and then promptly started ignoring him for reasons yet to be determined. Her sister is just as sexy but twice as bitchy; she hasn’t directly addressed him since he arrived, but her snarky comments leave little doubt she knows he’s not good enough to join the family. It’s been a strained, boring, and unpleasant meal so far.

bad Thanksgiving dinner

Eventually he just can’t take it any longer. Out of sheer boredom, he “contrives to drop his napkin” as they say in Victorian erotica. And then he vanishes below the tablecloth to see what fun might be found there. After briefly considering giving his fiancé an unexpected thrill, he decides against it. In her current mood, she might fail to play along, and go with “humiliate Jimmy” instead. Not his game; not in front of the parents anyway. But hey, the bitchy sister has some amazingly sexy toes, and the shoes to show them off!

napkin dropping foot pervert

And so he decides to excuse himself from the table, make a beeline to the sister’s bedroom, and see if the rest of her shoe collection is as sexy as the ones she’s wearing. He might even leave her a little present in some of them!

shoe thief

Jackpot! What a collection! Jimmy is in love.

sexy shoe love

At this point, all impulse control is gone. He grabs a big pile of shoes and commences to wallow in them. What could possibly go wrong?

time for a shoe wank

Yeah, he didn’t give the bitchy sister enough credit. She knows a sneaky shoe-debaucher when she meets one! And so she waits just long enough to catch him in the act. Jimmy is so busted!

busted while shoe wanking

Luckily for Jimmy, she’s bored too, and just as horny as he is. She’s a little rough on him, but in the end, the boring dinner is rescued for both of them.

foot worship reward

Photos are from Thanksgiving Femdom Foot Affair in the Kink Prime network.

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And The Spunk Did Fly!

Friday, November 11th, 2022 -- by Bacchus

I believe our man owes Mistress Katy another pair of nice lace stockings, in addition to whatever else he may owe her:

man with his pecker in his hand just sent flying jizz all over femdom dominatrix Mistress Katy and her lovely lace stockings hose and lingerie

Photo is said to be from the Young Goddess femdom site that went defunct in 2011.

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She Commands Attention

Wednesday, August 24th, 2022 -- by Bacchus

The riding crop, presumably, is just to make sure she has these gentlemen’s full attention. I think it’s working:

femdom hypnotist or dominatrix in a slinky dress commanding the attention of a roomful of rich old men

Our commanding woman is from a 1953 issue of This Week magazine. Artist credit is Peter Stevens.

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Surprise Femdom For Father’s Day

Thursday, June 16th, 2022 -- by Bacchus

Charlotte Sartre, Charlotte Sins, and Kay Carter triple-team a dad whose loving wife made him a surprise dominatrix appointment

With Father’s Day coming up, this man’s loving wife decided to get him an extremely special present. No, she didn’t warn him; she just made up some plausible excuse and sent him off blind to his dominatrix appointment. Surprise!

airtight femdom pegging threesome with huge dildos by three dominatrices in a revenge appointment by a loving wife who may also be getting a tiny bit of revenge

If he’s looking a little oppressed, well… let’s just say his wife may have a few grievances about their marriage. And so she might have specified that her guy would absolutely be crushed and disappointed if he didn’t get a really good sound spanking. The ladies have certainly obliged her!

femdom spanking for a father paying for the grudges he inspired in his wife

In the wife’s defense, it’s absolutely the case that her man has complained repeatedly about a lack of spontaneity in their sex life. Plus, he’s often hinted around at the idea of opening up their relationship to see other people sexually.

submissive father getting his nads yanked while pegged up the ass and sucking a dildo

Really, this goodwife has merely performed her spousal obligation to be, as Dan Savage puts it, “good, giving, and game.” Be careful what you wish for, gentlemen!

fisting and face sitting for a submissive dad during his femdom gangbang

The special watermark/banner on these photos is in honor of the limited-time Kink Unlimited 60%-off Father’s Day sale. The shoot is Playtime In Hell.

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Taking Turns With The Whip

Monday, May 2nd, 2022 -- by Bacchus

I haven’t troubled myself to transcribe and machine translate the French-language text from this unidentified comic. It would appear we’ve got ourselves a whipping scene where first she whips him, and then it’s his turn. Apparently turnabout is fair play:

nude blonde whips a groveling man

breast whipping for a helpless naked blonde

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Fingers All Up Inside His Dick

Tuesday, September 21st, 2021 -- by Bacchus

It doesn’t seem like her fingers ought to fit where she is putting them. How much previous stretching has that man’s urethra endured, I wonder?

urethral stretching femdom

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Eva Riccobono’s Bath Attendant

Wednesday, September 8th, 2021 -- by Bacchus

This stylish girl-washing photo exploded all over Tumblr more than a decade ago. The BDSM set especially loved it. It’s ambiguous, but in a delicious way:

man in a suit helps a naked beauty take a bath

Is our besuited man a stuffy old-fashioned butler? A loving but very busy husband, stopped by his young wife’s boudoir between important meetings? Husband or not, perhaps he’s her wealthy and attentive submissive? Or maybe she is his submissive, well-kept to the point of being a wee bit spoiled? Whimsical captions and imagined contexts proliferated. But nobody had, or cared to share, the photo’s actual provenance. When it recently percolated to the top of my queue of interesting blog-fodder, I immediately suspected it of being from a fashion magazine. That guess turns out to be about half right, but proving it took a lot of research. I do these things for you, dear readers and treasured patrons, and also for me.

Luminary sex-blogger Violet Blue shared the photo, while expressing misgivings about the sorry state of Tumblr attributions, in November of 2009. Although the actual image is gone from her blog now, her discussion of it remains:

I recently discovered danae’s exquisite tumbleblog, “kinda like a blog but with short-form, mixed-media posts with stuff I like.” What I like about it, besides the fantastic curation of sexually explicit images (with a strong accent on female submission, of course), is that whenever possible danae credits the photo source. That’s really important to me. But that’s always a ridiculous hope with Tumblr blogs — which is why I seldom post about them. This one’s exceptional.

In 2009 both Danae and Violet sourced the photo to its “patient zero” appearance on Tumblr, which doesn’t help me, in 2021, in my quest for real provenance. Fortunately, I was able to find some information scattered across a handful of nearly-defunct websites. When I chased it all the way back to the source, the photo turns out to have appeared as part of a spread in Deliciae Vitae #3, a magazine from 2003. If you have never heard of Deliciae Vitae, you might be forgiven; it was an annual, and there were only ever three issues. Copies, if you can find them, sell on eBay for upwards of $200. I scraped the following explanation of the project from an old broken fashion site, where DV’s editor-in-chief Kinder Aggugine had this to say:

In 1983, aged 18, I approached one of Europe’s leading publishers of adult material with my idea for a stylishly superior men’s publication. I knew there was a market for an international magazine that was classy, luxurious and sexy but which was fundamentally not about porn. I mean if that’s all you want you can get it anywhere, right? They laughed me out of the building…

Another 18 years on, the culture of photography and publishing has come a very long way. Having worked as a fashion designer for much of the intervening period I’ve been struck how much fashion, and particularly fashion photographers have embraced sex and sexuality in advertising and editorial fashion shoots for men and women.

Ultimately, as the fashion industry knows very well, it’s the image — the way someone (or something) is photographed — that makes them desirable. The medium — as they say — is the message. Which explains why certain fashion photographers have become as famous as film directors.

Deliciae Vitae is an independent bi-annual publication, of deliberate, unashamedly luxurious excess. Autonomous and unconstrained in a world of ever more increasing conglomerate fashion. Beautiful women from across the globe are photographed by the very best fashion and art photographers to give pleasure to the most sophisticated of palates. But such sophistication is indulged just as much by fine writing. So look out for features on the eternal sexual chemistry of champagne, the elitist joys of supersonic travel or the return of the ultimate pop playboy Bryan Ferry. Deliciae Vitae is not meant to appeal to everyone. But then, you’re not everyone, are you?

Issue 3 of Delicia Vitae featured a digitally sliced-up Naomi Campbell on the cover:

Deliciae Vitae magazine cover Issue #3 2003

Inside, readers found a lengthy spread by photographer Giampaolo Sgura starring Eva Riccobono and titled Pictorial #8: Attendant (Upstairs And Downstairs And In My Lady’s Chamber). The spread included an 8-photograph bathing sequence which is worth reproducing in full, especially as it took a lot of scraping through busted malware-loading celeb and porn sites to reassemble:

eva riccobono lets her attendant help her undress for a bath

perched half-nude on the edge of the clawfoot bathtub

a butler to help remove her panties

standing in the bathtub to show off her tits

every girl needs a man in a suit and a tie to help scrub her front in the bathtub

bath tub hair washing assistance from the sexy man in the suit and tie

a spritz of perfume or cologne for milady and her perfect air dried breasts

combing her wet hair like a good boy

Well, that turned out to be a journey that was worth the search for a map. Wasn’t it?

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When Your Delivery Driver Is Onto You

Saturday, July 24th, 2021 -- by Bacchus

Sometimes, they snoop the packages. And when you’re buying cock cages and other sex toys that lets her figure you for a male submissive, and she turns out to be a dominant woman with a lot of extra time on her delivery schedule, she might just bust into your house and make you do filthy stuff:

UPS dominatrix makes him sniff her stinky sweaty boots

face sitting delivery driver puts his nose right up her ass

Yes, old boy’s nose is precisely where you think it is.

Photos are from Mean Package Delivery, via Kink Unlimited.

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Bug-Eyed Rubber Monster

Saturday, April 17th, 2021 -- by Bacchus

Hey, look, new rubber-suited BEM with goggle-eyes and a duckface just dropped! Is there a new cheesy scifi movie out?

femdom rubber fetish heavy latex outfit

Oh, no. Oh, no. Wait a minute, I don’t think that’s what’s going on here at all.

dominatrix tormenting piss slave in a rubber suit

Yikes! Oh, how initial impressions can mislead. What we have here is one of the star performers in Sperm Robbery In The Rubber Chamber, from Kink Unlimited. And that cup on the front of his face? Well, let’s just say it’s designed to be destructive of his autonomy with respect to ingestion of liquids…

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Mistress Rosario Dawson

Saturday, April 3rd, 2021 -- by Bacchus

This photo of Rosario Dawson in a dominatrix getup has been circulating recently in some of my social media feeds. It’s a very nice photo, but that “faux dominatrix doing nothing” schtick has been done — so much so that Spy magazine lampooned it with a photoshopped Hillary Clinton in shiny latex all the way back in the early ’90s.

rosario dawson posing as a femdom queen domina

But I have a problem, and its name is Provenance. It’s very difficult for me to just drop a pretty picture and go “Yo, this pic is fun, I don’t know anything about it, k-thanks-bye.” Dumbass me, I always gotta Google.

Suddenly, the “every pretty celeb has done one” dominatrix photo gets a lot darker and more fascinating. When we look outside the narrow crop everybody is circulating, we see heavy vinyl curtains, a morgue table, some human feet, and a collection of evil-looking electrical devices, complete with cables and clamps. We’ve gone from “posing in the gear” to “some sort of interesting story has been interrupted in progress”:

Rosario Dawson in her torture lair with electrosex toys and strange electrical interrogation devices with battery clamps

The natural next step for me is to look for the source photoshoot and see if there are more pictures that tell even more of the interesting story. The photo is sourced to a shoot by 1990s fashon-photography darling Dah Len that appeared in the premier May 2002 issue of Complex magazine. Complex was a stylish hip-hop/fashion/culture mag that enjoyed a 15 year run (before the internet ate print mags) and still exists in the form of a large and flourishing youth-culture media company. Although the accompanying cover story from the magazine got published in 2012 on a now-crumbling Complex Media website that Archive.org captured in the Wayback machine, neither the Complex people nor the Archive have any imagery to show us. Instead I must work from various dodgy collections of “celebrity photos” on malware-shoving picture sites, and these are not reliably comprehensive. Nonetheless, my best synthesis of the available information is that this particular gritty dungeon scene probably appeared in just the one magazine photo.

However, there were other photos. My favorites have Rosario in what could be a schoolteacher outfit, vamping on a school desk while an anonymous man checks his weight on a scale, in the background. He, or someone, has been writing lines (“I will not…” at least fifteen times) on the chalkboard. Is Rosario a stern physical education teacher? That would not explain the accoutrements of geography instruction in the office. Why is the man being weighed? Your guess is as good as mine. But I’m pretty sure Rosario doesn’t plan to let weigh-in man out of her office without playing with him first:

rosario dawson as strict geography teacher lounging on her desk

rosario dawson in sexy pose as schoolteacher

A version of that latter photo, it turns out, also graced the cover of the magazine:

Complex Magazine cover with Rosario Dawson as sexy schoolteacher, July 2002

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She Is My Master: Vintage German Femdom

Thursday, March 25th, 2021 -- by Bacchus

This somewhat tame vintage femdom photoset has an English title (“She Is My Master”) and is captioned in German. If any of the ErosBlog Cunning Linguist Irregulars would like to provide a translation in the comments, it would be appreciated!

stern german woman disciplines her husband

Said to be from Flagellandismus in der Photographie (1933).

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Birthday Girl Face-Sitting: On Her Own Terms

Saturday, March 6th, 2021 -- by Bacchus

“What do you want for your birthday, honey?” “To sit on your face.” “OK, sure, sounds like fun!”

Always check the fine print, my man:

she smothers him with her pussy and he is helpless to make her stop the face sitting

Artwork is by xxxx52, who has a Patreon.

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Sadistic Glee

Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021 -- by Bacchus

If you’ve ever heard the phrase “sadistic glee” and wondered what it actually looks like, I think I got you covered:

urethral sounding femdom party

That’s Lady Natalie Black, doing something implausible with steel rods that ought not to fit where she shoves them. Yes, the dude is extremely well-restrained and yeah, that’s not a small cock he’s brought along to the urethral sounding party, but still…

Photo is via Kink Unlimited.

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What We Have Here Is A Failure To Communicate

Friday, November 13th, 2020 -- by Bacchus

This is not the first time it has been observed: a man who wants to “try anal” needs to be kinda specific. Otherwise, this could happen. “What? You said you wanted to try anal!”

femdom wife ready to help her husband try anal -- by pegging

Art is by JomsViking.

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Unsecured Bluetooth Penis-Chastity Lock Toy: Bad Idea

Tuesday, October 6th, 2020 -- by Bacchus

Look, folks. Sometimes “just because we can” is not a good enough reason to hook your sex toys to the internet. Sometimes, the old analog ways of doing things are better. Especially if what you’re doing is locking up your penis:

dripping cock and smug keyholder girlfriend

But wait! Wouldn’t if be fun if we didn’t need a key? We could Bluetooth it! And have an app! And then my virtual keyholder could lock or unlock the cock from anywhere in the world! What could possibly go wrong?

welder prepping to cut off a balky cock chastity device with hot cutting torch

What could go wrong, you ask? Here’s your answer: The Qiui internet-connected penis chastity lock. Zack Whittaker at Tech Crunch has the story: Security flaw left ‘smart’ chastity sex toy users at risk of permanent lock-in

This could have been bad.

U.K.-based security firm Pen Test Partners said the flaw in the Qiui Cellmate internet-connected chastity lock, billed as the “world’s first app controlled chastity device,” could have allowed anyone to remotely and permanently lock in the user’s penis.

The Cellmate chastity lock works by allowing a trusted partner to remotely lock and unlock the chamber over Bluetooth using a mobile app. That app communicates with the lock using an API. But that API was left open and without a password, allowing anyone to take complete control of any user’s device.

Because the chamber was designed to lock with a metal ring underneath the user’s penis, the researchers said it may require the intervention of a heavy-duty bolt cutter or an angle grinder to free the user.

I’m no expert on penis cages or lockable male chastity devises, but I gather some users enjoy having other parties in control of when and how they can free their dick long enough to have a satisfying sexual experience.

locked-cock pussy-licking slave satisfies his woman when and how she wants for as long as she wants

You might trust your lover with the keys to that experience. But once you connect your cock lock to the internet, suddenly there’s a third party in your triangle of lust and frustration: A basement crew of unresponsive Chinese developers, along with everybody in the world smart enough to hack their weak-ass software. How’s that going to end? Not well!

Qiui chief executive Jake Guo told TechCrunch that a fix would arrive in August, but that deadline came and went. “We are a basement team,” he said…

It’s not known if anyone maliciously exploited the vulnerable API. Several user reviews of the app complained that the app had bugs that would cause the device to stay locked.

Image credits, top to bottom: Kami Tora, Froaden, KD Pierre.

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He’s Mad About The Foot Job

Sunday, September 27th, 2020 -- by Bacchus

His rigid dick says he’s enjoying the femdom foot job. But his face says he’s mad about the bondage ropes:

femdom bondage foot job

Artist is Nagano Tenzen.

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His Submission Will Be Filmed…And Graded

Saturday, September 5th, 2020 -- by Bacchus

office pussy eater

Long ago, before the internet existed, I knew a woman who had an office manager job. That meant she had reasonable amounts of authority and status, but she was by no means “the boss”, especially since the office provided services for a lot of “suits” from other corporate divisions. I believe she was fed up with butt pinches and lazy passes, because she had a prominent sign in her office: “Sexual harassment attempts in this office will be reported… and they will be graded!”

dominant woman using man in suit as a footrest while texting on her phone

There’s at least a little bit of dominatrix energy there. “Pull your male bullshit in here? Me and the other office ladies will not only punish you, we will humiliate you!”

blushing man humiliated by his strap-on pegging

Of course, some guys like that. Those guys get turned over to human resources. Nobody ever got off on being investigated and fired by the HR department. I hope?

This was all so long ago, I don’t even think that office had video camera surveillance. It might have; the cams existed. But they were bulky and expensive. So I doubt it. As the world has marched along, though, cheaper and smaller cameras can now be found everywhere. They’re great for gathering evidence, but they’re also pretty excellent for deepening and prolonging a sub’s humiliation. And if that fails, there’s always blackmail, right?

lick my pussy while I film it, you groveling worm

It’s been a long time since I worked in an office. The stories I hear suggest that the most blatantly sexist bullshit has been forced underground by corporate policies with at least a few teeth. These days, men who want abuse from strong women mostly know they’re better off finding a real-world dominant mistress in their community, or camming with an online dominatrix at a site like Mistress World. That’s good, because not every woman has the status, the poise, or the economic security to assert her power in the workplace. Nor should they have to. Besides, the guys who like this sort of thing say it always works out to be a lot more fun when they actually pay for it:

femdom footjob captured on a digital camera

Messier, too!

explosive orgasm foot job while the domina films it

Image credits, from top to bottom: Office lady working hard while getting her pussy eaten is by Kerorin aka Kerolin. Unhappy mistress with phone cam, sitting on man in suit, is by Olg. Blushing man being pegged in the ass with a huge strap-on is by Or. Woman sitting on a submissive guy’s face and filming it is by Ole-M. Aloof mistress giving a footjob and documenting it with her digi-cam is by Momio. Phonecam recording of explosive footjob by a domina wearing baggy socks is by Hentaix.

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Cheerfully Eating Her Ass

Tuesday, February 11th, 2020 -- by Bacchus

It may be true that she’s “making” him eat her ass with the pressure of one leather-gloved hand, but there’s extrinsic evidence that he’s quite cheerful about the ass-eating task she’s set him to:

femdom ass eating

Artwork is by the inimitable Bill Ward, who drew everything from silly cartoons to brutal BDSM but never seemed quite so much at home with his own art as when he was drawing submissive men and the domininatrixes who play with them.

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The “B” Stands For “Princess”

Monday, January 27th, 2020 -- by Bacchus

The following comes from a thread by Dr. Bob Nicholson (aka “The Digital Victorian”) on Twitter, excerpting a series of 1892 newspaper reader responses on the question of how to “manage a husband”. This letter sounds to my modern ear more like a dominatrix’s online marketing copy than a true and real account of three marriages:

how to manage submissive husbands

I found myself curious about the greater context of Mary Louse B.’s concluding quatrain, so of course I had to look it up. It’s half of a poem:

A Useful Hint
By Aaron Hill (1685—1750)

TENDER-HANDED stroke a nettle,
And it stings you for your pains;
Grasp it like a man of mettle,
And it soft as silk remains.

‘Tis the same with common natures,
Use them kindly they rebel;
But be rough as nutmeg graters,
And the rogues obey you well.

Or, as Spanking Blog once described this poem: “Bad horticultural data from Aesop, recycled as unpleasant management advice.”

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Santa Got Caught

Thursday, December 19th, 2019 -- by Bacchus

Santa Claus isn’t human, but he does make mistakes. And he made a big one when he got caught making a delivery to Syren de Mer’s well-equipped dominatrix dungeon.

Santa Claus bondage: gagged and bound

Hold on. On second thought, was it really a mistake? Or is Santa crazy like a fox?

facesitting Santa femdom

facesitting santa dominatrix

Whatever else he is, Santa is almost certainly immortal. That means that a dominatrix sitting on his face doesn’t have to worry whether he can catch his breath:

Santa Claus licks femdom pussy

A right jolly old elf he may be, but it looks like Santa still knows how to use his tongue:

femdom smothering santa with her pussy

And that is the story of how Syren de Mer and Santa Claus had a merry Christmas together.

Photos are from Santa Gets Got: Syren de Mer Catches Dale Savage in Her Dungeon. Thanks to Divine Bitches, which is a Kink Unlimited channel.

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Do Not Drown

Friday, November 1st, 2019 -- by Bacchus

The whip, I think, is purely a symbol of authority in this context. But I do hope the person she’s smothering can manage to maintain a clear airway while she has her fun:

femdom facesitting bondage man

The artist is Yamashita Shun’ya, per the imperfect metadata that I have.

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Exercise For Her Man-Toy

Sunday, July 7th, 2019 -- by Bacchus

It’s not entirely clear from this perspective what means this slim young mistress is using to require her man-toy to run along so closely behind her Jeep. But since his hands appear to be tied behind his back, it stands to reason that she’s attached his — well, something — to the spare tire rack on the back:

femdom forced exercise cartoon

Don’t stumble, don’t fall, my dude!

Artwork is from Kitan Club.

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Mischievous Fun With A Caged Dick

Friday, February 15th, 2019 -- by Bacchus

I’m not sure what mischief this dominant woman plans for the caged dick that’s been unwisely entrusted to her “care”, but it sure looks like she intends for her evil schemes to take a long time and to be a lot of fun. A lot of fun for her, that is:

cruel young dominatrix teases firmly erect and dripping caged dick and smirks about her evil femdom schemes for it

Femdom art by Chibiabos Elgreco Winnegan, who vanished from the web long ago.

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Chanel Preston’s Treatment For Perverts

Wednesday, February 13th, 2019 -- by Bacchus

Bearing always in mind the ErosBlog editorial doctrine that perverts are purrfectly nice people: dominant nurse Chanel Preston has a treatment for that. A pervert treatment, that is:

the full pervert treatment for Rick Fantana at Divine Bitches: Kink Unlimited / Chanel Preston

The image comes from a Divine Bitches shoot at Kink Unlimited called Nurse Chanel Preston’s Unorthodox Treatment for Perverts, which goes like this:

Welcome to the Divine Bitches Reformatory Clinic. Chanel Preston, head nurse, administers a uniquely unorthodox treatment to the men consigned to her “care”.

Her patient Rick Fantana is a pervert. There’s no getting around this. He’s been in pervert treatment for over a year and shows no sign of improvement. Chanel knows it’s time for the next phase: pain.

Once Rick is fully restrained with leather straps and an open mouth gag, Chanel starts right in. Electric zapper straight to the dick. Caning all of Rick’s sensitive areas. Clamping all his bits. She knows the only way this pervert will learn from his punishments is if she mixes in a little bit of pleasure. Rick’s cock gets hard and drippy but he is not allowed to cum. Edged over and over again by Chanel, he whimpers helplessly.

Phase two of pervert treatment proves more effective. Chanel straps on a huge rubber cock and fucks Rick’s ass. This pervert quickly gets rock hard again.

After the anal pounding, it’s time for Rick to learn a useful skill: pleasing a woman. Rick is made to do cunnilingus on Chanel before she flips him over and uses his dick for an epic orgasm. Then she edges him some more, until he loses all control…

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Femdom, Foot Fetish, And Feederism

Tuesday, November 20th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

This 1970s Japanese illustration should somehow get extra points for combining femdom, feederism, and foot fetishes while casually working in bondage and smoking:

Japanese dominatrix feeds cookies to her slave with her toes in Kitan Club illustration

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Revenge Of The Amazons

Friday, November 16th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

You see a lot of pulp covers with rough men shaking whips at scantily clad women. But on this one, the women have all those men in a net, and it’s time for some Amazon femdom whip revenge:

naked amazons with whips and men in a net

Art is from the cover of Moschettieri #4.

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Spitting In His Mouth

Tuesday, November 13th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

One of the oddities of modern porn that I am too old and staid to appreciate is, well, all the spitting. Usually in the porn I see it’s a man spitting on a woman’s pussy, or into her mouth; and it’s not usually a big thing, just a little note of humiliation in a rough sex scene (the kind we used to call “gonzo porn” but nowadays we just call “porn”). But some producers and directors seem determined to do this in every damned movie! And I don’t know why. It’s definitely not my kink, and I wouldn’t have known it was anyone’s if it didn’t keep happening in recently-made stuff.

Thus I was almost relieved to come across this 1970s Japanese femdom fetish illustration that proves it’s (a) not new and (b) not necessarily a gendered thing. Of course there never are any new things in sex, but it’s a point that can always stand to be remade with fresh evidence:

three women spitting in a submissive man's mouth

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Toyed With By Space Pirates

Wednesday, October 24th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

I made reference in September to the 1979 Superwoman porno spoof movie. Per the November 1980 Adam Film World, it never actually got released under that title, because lawyers. Instead, it got reworked and retitled before a 1980 release as Ms. Magnificent, whose captive boyfriend we see here being played with by a space pirate who is herself rather magnificent in my professional opinion:

scruffy boyfriend captured and used as the bondage sex plaything of femdom space pirates

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“Forced” To Lick Her Nipples

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2018 -- by Bacchus

If a woman wants the pleasure she wants and has no patience at all for putting up with the nonsense of fuckboys, one increasingly-popular strategy is what I shall call “direct supervision”:

man forced to lick leather-clad dominatrix with pierced nipples

This femdom photo was hashtagged as vintage by Mr. Underheel on Twitter, whose image curation marks him in my estimation as something of an expert. When, as here, none of my usual image provenancing methods turn up any deeper information, I generally consider that to indicate an older origin also, harking back at least to the print-publication era. However, in this case there’s just something about the overall composition that strikes me as modern. I want to say “the style of the nipple piercings” but I’m not an expert in those and I’m sure if I said that somebody would land on my head with Victorian-era examples. So let’s just leave this with the notation that my instincts are twitching with a reservation that it might not be as “vintage” as it seems.

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A Stern Women Of Endowments

Thursday, September 13th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

The look of considerable disdain on this dominant lady’s face suggests that the person she is punishing is only barely worth the trouble she’s taking swing to that whip. Her downcast gaze — and the notable length of her whip — tells us that her punishee is plastered flat to the floor, perhaps even trying to merge with it, if only such a thing were possible! The woman with the whip? She’s tall and strong, with considerable physical endowments. (No, I don’t just mean her impressive breasts.) Some naughty person is going to be rather covered in welts before this long evening is over…

femdom whipping in progress japanese fetish art

From a 1970s Kitan Club fetish magazine.

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Calamity Jane’s New Ride

Tuesday, August 21st, 2018 -- by Bacchus

Calamity Jane has a new ride, and her pony boy has got some fresh stripes on his naked ass. Hey, is that really George Custer?

calamity jane riding George Armstrong Custer like a horse femdom

I wish I knew more about this publication. From the art style, I’d guess at the 1970s, and it’s priced in lira, so probably Italian.

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A Kinky Orgy In The Champagne Room

Monday, August 6th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

This looks to me more like something they darkroom-edited together for the cover of the October 1977 Italian porn magazine Supersex than like a party that anybody actually partied — but what do I know? It was a long time ago, and I was a mere slip of a child.

dominatrix performs femdom whipping on chained man while three simpering beauties pamper a dude with a bottle of champagne

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Spanking John Willie

Thursday, June 14th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

According to Mr. Underheel on Twitter, these two photos are of legendary fetish publisher John Willie getting an over-the-knee spanking:

otk femdom spanking for john willie

john willie otk spanking

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Man Tamer

Wednesday, May 30th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

Ever since PETA got to the Circus Regulation Board and got the animals taken away, the center ring act just hasn’t been the same. The head animal tamer looks really good in her uniform and she does the best she can with the material she has to work with, but the act? It suffers:

circus dominatrix with whip does a femdom act with hapless man in center ring

From the cover of Il Camionista.

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Captured By Amazons

Friday, May 25th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

When the Amazons have knocked you out with stone-tipped arrows and tied you to a horse and are dragging you naked back to their city, you are probably in trouble. Whether it’s good trouble or bad trouble? That remains to be seen:

femdom amazon captive naked

From Kzara ou Les nuits barbares by Jean-Yves Mitton.

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Snark, Thy Name Is Bacchus

Monday, May 21st, 2018 -- by Bacchus

Some days, the snark builds up inside me until it threatens to blow off the top of my head. Today must be one of those days. When I caught a glimpse of a few photos from a perfectly normal Carmen Rivera femdom shoot being marketed via Kink Unlimited, my first thought upon seeing the paunchy bewhiskered white guy in chains was “Hey, look! They caught a senator!” And I did not feel at all badly that they had, either:

punishing a senator

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Sadism Is Supposed To Be Fun

Saturday, May 12th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

Here’s a reminder via Bawdy Blog that sadism is supposed to be fun:

femdom naked woman masturbating and dripping vaginal secretions as she whips a prostate figure

The art isn’t credited, and I could be wrong, but from the style I want to say it’s by Peter Riverstone.

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Touch Therapist, Unconventional

Friday, May 4th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

Everyone agrees: her methods are unconventional, but her results are good and her clients go away happy!

blonde femdom nurse with happy man strapped to table using her stethoscope on his genitals

From the cover of Lando #93.

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Phyllis Riding Aristotle, Redux

Sunday, April 15th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

Back in 2010 when my good friend Dr. Faustus was still co-blogging here at ErosBlog, he posted an image of the great philosopher Aristotle being ridden by Phyllis. Here’s a twentieth-century and rather more erotic variation on that classic theme:

femdom-phyllis-aristotle

The artist is Louis Berthommé-Saint-André.

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Betty’s Pet Archie

Wednesday, March 14th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

I certainly wasn’t planning to do two “Fetish Archie” posts in a row, but after posting yesterday’s femdom giantess post, I noticed that Paltego at Femdom Resource had found an absolutely precious panel of Betty walking Archie like a dog:

betty walking archie on a leash like a dog

I have not been able to readily source the panel to a specific story and book, which means that the “My own pet?” dialog box could easily be a Photoshop; there are an awful lot of modified comics panels out there. If anybody can place this panel for me in the vast Archie corpus, I’d be indebted!

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Archie’s Femdom Giantess

Tuesday, March 13th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

The theory that every fetish out there is prefigured by a panel in an Archie comic is, I just realized, a variant of Rule 34: if a fetish exists, there is probably an Archie panel featuring it. Today’s evidence is a panel featuring a femdom giantess complete with a whip, and what makes this “special” is that the whip makes no sense in context of the story and doesn’t otherwise appear.

femdom giantess makes archie and jughead dig for treasure

The panel itself is from an Archie Andrews story in Pep Comics #50 from 1944.

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A Skillful Dominatrix

Thursday, February 22nd, 2018 -- by Bacchus

This lady must be a domme of some skill, I’m thinking, for her victim client to have such a pleased look on his face with the hot irons heating right there in the charcoal brazier:

femdom dominatrix greets helpless man with a grin on his face as glowing red hot branding irons heat in the fire

Artwork comes from the cover of Sexy Show #3.

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Soup For Leatherboy

Saturday, February 10th, 2018 -- by Bacchus

It is a truth universally acknowledged that if you keep a leather-clad boy-toy chained in your thick-walled, iron-barred stone dungeon, you’ll have to bring him the occasional bowl of soup:

femdom captor dominatrix feeds soup to her boy toy twink slave on a chain

The art is from the cover of Histoires Sanglantes #5.

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Share Our Shit Saturday 7 #SoSS

Saturday, December 30th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

A day and a half short of a new year, it’s time for one last 2017 Share Our Shit Saturday:

  1. Girl On The Net nails down “ironic sexism” and why it’s not as funny as you think. Dude, that moment when you get the irresistible urge to say the exact same thing as some asshole, only because it’s you saying it and you’re not an asshole, it will totally be funny? Flash news: It won’t be funny. You’ll just sound like an asshole. As far as anybody else could tell, you’ll BE an asshole. I feel your pain; this is a daily struggle for me, and not always a winning one.
  2. Paltego at Femdom Resource has some thoughts and links about the public image of femdom professionals and the damage done to their image and profession as a class by a minority of humiliation, abuse, and findom dommes who seem confused (this is my editorializing, not Paltego’s) about the distinction between domination within a negotiated scene context and abusive online treatment of random strangers as a social media marketing strategy.
  3. Congratulations to Richard Windsor, who has been blogging vintage spanking photos for eleven years and intends to keep doing so for at least another eleven. That sort of dogged curatorial devotion should win a Drunken Bacchus award, if indeed there were any such thing.

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The Strong Women Of Sexopolis

Tuesday, November 14th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

These femdom illustrations are from three different covers of the French pulp publication Sexopolis; click each one for the uncropped cover:

woman fondles muscular man in chains and shackles

captive man faces warrior woman with whip

tied strong man with noose around his neck

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Mistress Kitty’s Pedagogy

Wednesday, September 6th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Apparently, he’s stupid and he smells:

Mistress Kitty teaches a naked man that he's stupid and smelly

From a Private magazine, by photographer Trevor Watson.

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Happiness Is A Well-Trained Librarian

Wednesday, August 30th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Gillian was having a little bit of trouble, working at the liberary. Sexual harassment, not to put too fine a point on it; her boss Joe wouldn’t take “no” for an answer, and his boss insisted on sending her for some extremely dubious training. Which at least turned out to have an upside when she got back:

On Monday morning, Joe looked up from his desk and saw Gillian in the doorway. He almost jumped out of his chair.

For Gillian had changed. Big time. It started with her face. Her old glasses were gone, replaced by big, thin-framed, black ones that added deadliness to the sensuality of her eyes. She wore makeup accentuating her high cheekbones. Her lipstick was a dark red and the pout of her mouth somehow told him he was in trouble.

And her clothes were different. Instead of the old dowdy dresses, she wore a flattering, pale-blue, turtle-necked sweater that didn’t hide the swell of her tits at all. Below that, she had on a suede skirt that ended several inches above her knees. It flared out and flicked as she moved, almost showing her stocking tops.

Now that Joe could see her legs he almost passed out, and a bulge started in the crotch of his pants. For Gillian’s wonderful thighs and calves were now pushed into perfect shape by a pair of spiked five-inch heels.

She paraded forward, holding a letter.

“This is for you,” she said. “I’m taking over.”

He gasped and tore open the envelope. He went white as he read the letter. It was from his boss, Dean Harper; informing him that he was out of a job and Gillian was now running the library.

He glanced up at her, but Gillian was looking around the room, taking mental notes on what changes she wanted.

“But, this can’t be!” Joe moaned.

“Call him; you know the number.”

When Joe put the phone back down, his hand was shaking.

“You can’t do this to me!” he gasped and almost burst into tears.

“We can and we did!” Gillian snapped. “Now, get out.”

She stood there while Joe cleared out his desk and put his things in his briefcase. Then, eyes down, he started for the door.

“You want a job here?” Gillian asked, one hand on her hip.

He swung around, his pathetic groveling nature suddenly very obvious. “Yes, yes, please, Gillian, I won’t –”

“Miss Smith!” Gillian snapped.

“Please, Miss Smith, I’ll do whatever you say, and I won’t get out of line at all. I need a job! I owe so much money!”

Gillian sneered at him. “Lock the door and come here!”

He came up to her and gasped, as she spread her legs and slid her hands over her skirt. The little skirt eased up, showing more of her incredible legs and her stocking tops. The bulge in his pants throbbed desperately.

“On your knees,” she ordered.

From A Librarian’s Training — an old stroke book by Nathan Silvers in the Bondage Book series (BB-129).

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Lick It Like You Love It

Thursday, August 24th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

This vintage-femdom enthusiastic pussy licking photo is from Vintage Lust:

hugging her leg and licking her pussy submissive man

That looks to me like a man who is happy at his work!

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Little Black Dress, Little Black Hood

Wednesday, March 8th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

Via Kinky Delight, these women in black hoods appear to be punishing a man for adultery. It’s not entirely clear from the expression on his face whether he might have been willing to pay for the the experience:

hooded women whipping a bemused man tied to a tree - caption reads vigilantes in skirts: Rita thought torture a fair return for adultery

Artwork turns out to be from the cover of the April 1962 issue of Man to Man magazine, where a fuller version of the art appears:

Man to Man cover, April 1961

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Femdom Giantess Humiliation

Friday, February 24th, 2017 -- by Bacchus

His giantess domme is studying him with a very skeptical eye. Humiliate him for having a tiny dick? Hell, she’s gonna need a magnifying loupe even to see it!

skeptical femdom giantess peers at handsome but tiny captive tied man trying to discern whether he has enough dick to make fun of

Artwork is from the cover of Virgin Planet by Poul Anderson.

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“Grab My Pussy Again, I Dare You!”

Sunday, October 23rd, 2016 -- by Bacchus

He finally encountered a woman who wouldn’t put up with his grab-assing bullshit. It’s going to take him some time to heal:

outraged woman with a bullwhip and a grudge

Artwork is from a cover of the Italian pulp magazine Isabella.

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Interrogated By A Pretty Rebel

Thursday, October 6th, 2016 -- by Bacchus

It’s entirely possible that he might have told her what she wanted to know hours ago. But the service she’s providing? He only got that once before in his entire life, and it cost him most of a year’s pay at that fancy brothel in the city:

electricity interrogating him by wiring up his penis and balls

From Electrosex Blog.

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Her Hunky Captives

Friday, August 12th, 2016 -- by Bacchus

sexy femdom art from Bollywood movie trailer

This artwork looks like it should come from one of those steamy Amazon romances featuring a dominatrix with two competing boyfriends and tags like “F/mm, Femdom, Bondage”, but in fact it comes from the promo material for a Bollywood movie called Ishq Junoon:

sexy bollywood movie poster

There’s an official trailer, too:

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Her Smooth Ride

Sunday, July 3rd, 2016 -- by Bacchus

Here’s a bit of role reversal from the M/f bondage porn we usually see in Dofantasy comics:

lubing the cock of a muscular tied man before mounting him

A panel from Honeymoon Horror; artist is Moffett.

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Demanding Pussy Service From The Devil

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2016 -- by Bacchus

I find this an amusing twist on the default imagery of ravishing devils and demons. It looks to me like our intrepid female warrior for God has got this demonic figure fully under her thumb. All she has to do is stand commandingly erect and tug on his tail, while he gives her pussy service and tries to manage his own pleasure with his left hand:

abject cunnilingus devil licks pussy as his femdom Christian warrior woman stands commandingly erect

Artist not known, but if you click for the bigger image you can sort of make out a signature that might be something like “J. Land” or “J. Lad” or “J. Lard” and a 1997 date.

devil-service-sig

Update: Thanks to the commenters who fleshed out the identity of this Uruguayan artist: Javier Gil.

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Femdom Pubic Combing

Tuesday, December 15th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

The way she’s doing it probably hurts:

black dominatrix combs white man's pubic hair in a very painful-looking way

Via Kinky Delight. I believe the artist may be Eric Stanton.

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A Whole Lot Of Fun Was Had

Monday, November 16th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

Why do I get the feeling that somebody (not pictured) was walking funny and sporting a big grin the next day?

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Six Vengeful Ladies

Sunday, November 8th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

In this detail from an old Hustler magazine comic, six vengeful women discuss the proper treatment of a male intruder:

femdom dungeon full of bloodthirsty dominatrix women

The flogging threatened in this detail is the least of his worries; the offscreen women in the full panel are debating whether to deplay an electric prod, a high-pressure enema, or a spiked dildo up his ass.

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“I Win At Femdom Sex!”

Wednesday, September 16th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

A “Happy BDSM”-style spanking artwork on Spanking Blog leads us inexorably to the BlogSpot blog of Gracy Gimp, who is “the nickname that Benoit Feroumont uses to create erotic comics”. And there we find this triumphant selfie taken by a dominant woman who is having a good moment:

dominant woman sitting on the face of a man spread-eagled in rope bondage taking a triumphant selfie

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Femdom Sploshing

Thursday, August 6th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

I’ve usually encountered the notion of “sploshing” (or “wet and messy” as this sort of porn is sometimes categorized) as an exuberant admixture of female nudity and messy food (or sometimes, paint). Sometimes a “splosh party” will be advertised as an “all welcome” sort of deal. But I think the movie Princess Kali – Sploshing! is the first time I’ve encountered femdom splosh. The narrative, if I understand it aright, is “dominatrix as mistress-of-ceremonies for a fraternity hazing”, which strikes me as a far better way to administrate such affairs than the standard practice of leaving teen boys or barely-men in charge of them:

kali-femdom-splosh

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Bull’s Eye Balls Kicking

Thursday, July 23rd, 2015 -- by Bacchus

This has to be vintage femdom art by Eric Stanton:

kicked in the balls by a dominant woman

There’s guys who pay serious money for this sort of treatment, so I’ll keep my do-not-want opinions to myself.

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Walking All Over Him

Friday, July 17th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

She has a cute backpack and a cruel streak. First she walks all over him, then she puts him in the dog’s kennel:

walking on his balls

walking all over him

putting him in the cage

From Glam Bitches.

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A Sternly Intellectual Girlfriend

Sunday, May 10th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

This random tweet from somebody else’s conversation reminds me strongly of someone I used to know:

I see this and I’m like “I know that girl! She was in my regular dining hall clique for a couple of years in college. I don’t think she had a whip then, but I’ll bet she has one by now…”

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Urging Him On To Better Efforts

Wednesday, April 29th, 2015 -- by Bacchus

If she gets the timing and force of her swats just right, she can considerably improve his thrusting depth and frequency, giving her female friend a much better fucking experience:

‎urging-him-on-detail

Via Kinky Delight.

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Somebody’s Getting A Spanking…

Saturday, December 20th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

From a Tumblr post captioned “Progressive relationship photos”:

happy woman with a heart-cutout spanking paddle and a naked man cuddling her

And speaking of progressive: do you suppose that somewhere out there right now, there’s a couple with a new paddle rolling twenty-sided dice to determine who gets spanked first?

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Stantoon Femdom Strap-On Sex

Monday, October 27th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

In the comments on the post about bondage sex images a few days ago, steadfast commenter Dr. Whiplash asked:

Got any obscure material depicting a male in bondage, blindfolded, where a group of dominant females have secured him to one of those gloryhole-style milking tables, while one female is under the table teasingly manipulating his oiled penis and testicles, a second is ravishing his well-greased anus with a good-sized strap-on, as a third is forcing him to lick her hairless pussy? If not, I’ll settle for this blindfolded dude to be locked in a chastity device, while one female teasingly attempts to lick his manhood through the open spaces in his cock cage, a second is inserting a fat butt-plug into his sphincter, while a third has backed into his face for a thorough rim-job.

Well. That’s certainly specific, Snidely! And the sad answer is that no, right this very moment I do not have any images that precisely match either of those requests. But I can offer a drawing that seems very much in the spirit of them, if one doesn’t mind missing a few details:

stantoons two women restraining a man, forcing him to lick one woman's pussy while the other woman ravages his anus with a huge strap-on dildo

Artwork is by Eric Stanton, probably from one of his Stantoons publications.

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Flesh Fucker Gets His

Thursday, August 21st, 2014 -- by Bacchus

There’s a Flash Gordon parody by Wally Wood in the third number of his Gangbang! sex comic, and it’s called Flesh Fucker Meets Women’s Lib. (This was apparently an early 1980s reprint of artwork that appeared in The National Screw in 1977.)

In the short comic (just 3 pages and 17 panels), Flesh Fucker rescues the female heroine Gale on two occasions, and on both occasions he finds her naked and vulnerable so of course (this being a sex comic) he fucks her, without bothering with little niceties like, say, getting her consent. But Gale is a liberated woman, and she isn’t too impressed. Eventually she hooks up with a gang of Amazons, who storm the camp where Flesh Fucker has been tied to a log by hungry cannibals. At first he’s quite happy to see her, but then she takes her revenge:

turnabout-01

turnabout-02

turnabout-03

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Tormented By Four Demons

Saturday, August 9th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

At least they’re friendly demons:

four-demons

Artist unknown.

 

Femdom In Winter

Wednesday, February 5th, 2014 -- by Bacchus

cross-dressing and forced feminization femdom from 1800s France

I found this vintage femdom image (and is our man also dressed in women’s clothing, or is my impression to that effect based on changing fashions across an immense historical and cultural gulf?) on Kinky Delight, but then I had to do some porn research on it. It turns out to be the winter scene from a set called Quatre Saisons (Four Seasons) by Charles Edouard de Beaumont.

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Dominated By Six Women

Sunday, October 13th, 2013 -- by Bacchus

One of the joys of the erotic graphic novel is that scenarios can be drawn that would be exquisitely difficult (or prohibitively expensive) to enact in real life, or even in filmed porn. I do not doubt that in the long history of Parisian pleasure houses there have been some that could provide six dominatrices at once for sufficiently wealthy clients, but it must have been both rare and expensive:

coco femdom orgy

Art is from a French sex comic called Coco.

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“Like A Virgin” Anal Cream

Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 -- by Bacchus

It looks like femdom artist Whizzer Black has dreamed up a fantasy rebranding and repurposing for those ridiculous body-shaming alum-based “pussy-tightening” products:

Whizzer Black fremdom cartoon featuring anal tightening cream

“And to REALLY spice things up, don’t forget to use plenty of Howlin’ Jack’s Lube!”

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Bad Boyfriend

Friday, March 29th, 2013 -- by Bacchus

I hear that the problem with being a cougar is that younger men these days have no manners whatsoever. But on the bright side, some of them can be taught manners:

young man is about to get his bottom spanked

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Dudes In Distress, Tumblr Edition

Friday, March 22nd, 2013 -- by Bacchus

Here’s that rara avis, a Tumblr with what appears to be original content. And what’s more, it’s about Dudes In Distress. Damsels in distress on the internet, dime-a-dozen. Dudes? Not (quite) so much.

For the most part, the distress is pretty notional; does this man look distressed to you?

One commenter even suggested the tumblr should be called “Submissive Dudes in Fulfilling Sexual Relationships”. But it’s not all happy cocks tied up with pretty colored string. Nope, there was the time when

she waterboarded (one of) my boyfriend(s). She said, “I’m going to do this real nice.” Yeah, even the nice way sucks, though.

That, I can believe. I get panicky and short of breath just looking at this:

waterboarding her boyfriend

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The Well-Enforced Squat

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012 -- by Bacchus

So you’ve probably all seen (online, anyway) the bondage device The Humbler that locks a man’s balls back behind his legs when he’s in a bent-over position, and thus tends to keep him bent over until released, while exposing his stretched scrotum for particular attention.

However it wasn’t until I saw this photo on Tumblr that I realized that it could also be used to enforce a squatting position, by locking his balls in front of his ankles.

I suspect that position is not terribly stable, and he can probably re-arrange himself a number of ways. But when the slightest motion is going to tug roughly on the already-strained family jewels, the incentive is probably to stay as docilely still as possible…

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Female Dominance Without Sneers

Monday, October 22nd, 2012 -- by Bacchus

The thing I like about this femdom shoot is that Skin Diamond manages to slap and cane and generally dominate Sebastian Keys without ever once pulling out that tired old “femdom sneer”. Instead, she maintains a visage of gentle determination. In his place, I’d find that a lot more alarming:

face slapping femdom

dominatrix Skin Diamond canes a bound man

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Attacking The Balls…With Kindness?

Monday, June 18th, 2012 -- by Bacchus

I guess I just don’t think about balls enough. I’ve seen The Humbler kicking about the internet in various bits of femdom porn, but I don’t think I ever quite imagined someone doing this to the balls that might be trapped in one. Evil!

Found here.

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Forced, Reluctantly, To Look At Pussy

Tuesday, February 21st, 2012 -- by Bacchus

Paltego at Femdom Resource would like to know: what exactly is this young gentleman so concerned about?

a young man in bondage looks apprehensive as one of his female captors pulls down her slacks to expose her pussy

It’s a reasonable question. Could this bit of femdom art really date from that thankfully-bygone era when licking pussy was widely considered (by idiots) to be emasculating? I hope not, because I like Paltego’s purity ring theory better!

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A Man-Feast, This Time

Friday, December 30th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Every year around the holidays, we are likely to encounter at least one image of a woman trussed up and prepared for roasting, complete with apple in her mouth. It’s supposed to be funny, I guess, and much depends on how the image is presented. But if it ever seems just a bit too much Hustler-magazine woman-in-meat-grinder for you, maybe it will help to put the apple in a male mouth for a change?

man tied up and served for a femdom holiday feast with an apple in his mouth for a gag

Image credit: Divine Bitches. More here.

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Winning At Cards

Sunday, September 18th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

I’m not clear on what’s happening in this card game, but the gentleman seems to think he’s winning:

happy man playing cards while being ridden by a woman with a riding crop

From Vintage Scans.

 

A Too-Gentle Touch

Wednesday, September 7th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Gentlemen, have you ever destroyed your own orgasm while jerking off, by getting to that crucial moment and then giving yourself a touch that was just a hint too gentle? If you’ve been there, you know what I mean … it’s possible to ejaculate by accident without actually getting the full sensation of orgasm.

The girl in this animated .gif seems to be doing something similar to that, maliciously … and chortling about it.

( backup link / backup link )

 

CBT And Bad Attention

Thursday, August 25th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

I’ve always figured that the men who enjoy cock and ball torture (CBT for short) have bought in (a bit more seriously than most of us) to the old adage “There’s no such thing as bad attention.” I’m not with them — I want the wire brush, the electrified alligator clips, and the screw clamps kept the hell away from my tender bits!

heavy CBT

Via Kinky Delight.

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How To Lose A Fencing Match

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

I think it’s time to apologize and do whatever the nice lady asks, hmm?

fencing match conclusively lost

This is from an old Eurocomic called Pussy And Prick — I believe the artist is Hans Arnold Teuschler.

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Enjoying A Chained Man

Thursday, June 2nd, 2011 -- by Bacchus

I wasn’t planning to post any more Manara art right now, but then I saw this, and they do say turnabout is fair play. I don’t post enough stuff that shows dominant women, because I don’t see very much that seems authentic (in a narrow sense I just now made up where “authentic” means something like “she’s enjoying the situation on her own terms, rather than playing a role to cater to his fantasies”.) Bizarre though it may be to use a word like authentic in connection with made up scenes in art, this one struck me that way:

femdom bondage scene by Milo Manara

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The Chained Man

Monday, April 4th, 2011 -- by Bacchus

man in chains

It’s the cover art from a book cover seen on Twitter.

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“You Puny Male!”

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011 -- by Bacchus

Actually he doesn’t look all that puny to me:

\"Ha, ha! Now I got you, you puny male!\"

This is from the very lush and rather surreal comic Naimah, which turns out to be published by and available via Last Gasp.

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Fine Society Ladies

Friday, December 31st, 2010 -- by Bacchus

This is a photo by Horst:

four fine but cruel ladies examine tiny man under a magnifying glass and attempt to pierce him with a hat pin

 

Roped And Branded: Women And Men

Friday, December 3rd, 2010 -- by Bacchus

Violet Blue has another post up in her ongoing blog conversation about the fashion industry using the visual language of kink. This one features two ridiculously overdressed ladies in a corral, standing imperiously over a trussed-up cowboy who is staked out with his legs apart and has just had a branding iron applied to his ass. Remarks Violet: “Tell me that if this photoset was gender-reversed, Jezebel wouldn’t implode.” (Cf. The Modern Empress.)

I couldn’t possibly speculate about that. But what I can do is share some horrible/wonderful female domination comic panels drawn by the late Eric Stanton, of which I was reminded by our humiliated cowboy victim of high fashion. These panels and pages (some of the panels below will expand to the full pages if you click ’em) come, I believe but cannot swear, from Stanton’s regular Stantoons publication. Sadly, I don’t have bibliographic information for you — there were a lot of Stantoons, and I don’t know which one this story was published in.

The story features a western sheriff named Sam. Sam’s a racist and shit-head, I think it’s safe to say; he’s got an Indian wife, name of Red Gazelle, but at one point in the comic he denies he’s her husband, because “we just had the Injun ceremony, and I just wanted your body.” As you can see, he doesn’t treat her very well, either:

Sheriff Sam berates and whips his bound Indian wife Red Gazelle. This will prove to be a bad idea.

It is pertinent at this time to remind our readers that Eric Stanton typically drew female domination comics. Stay tuned for a change in the fortunes of our female protagonist. In other words, don’t panic.

Skipping rapidly along to the good part, if you can call it that, Sam the Shithead Sheriff soon meets a brazen outlaw woman named Belle Star. At first he wants to arrest her for the reward, but he soon decides he’d rather seduce her. While doing so, he keeps Red Gazelle on the end of a rope and continues to treat her badly; she fumes and grows both angry and jealous. It doesn’t take long, meanwhile, for Sam’s natural lack of charm to become obvious to Belle:

Belle Star finds the sheriff tiresome

So she thwacks him once upside the head with her riding crop, and in the peculiar nature of these femdom fantasies, he abruptly becomes her sniveling worm and abject slave.

Well! That instantly cures Red Gazelle of any jealously; she reasons that if he’s so weak, he’s not worth it. Now she’s just mad about the mistreatment. So she gets herself untied and joins in on the worm-stomping party. It doesn’t take long for her and Belle to decide to fire up the forge and avail themselves of the branding irons, either:

Belle Star brands the sheriff while he begs and pleads

The reason his ass looks furry is that in one panel (not shown here) they spanked him with a cactus. Seriously.

They carry on with the irons for awhile:

branding the sheriff

The story’s a western, though, so eventually it draws to a close, and there’s a tender “they ride off into the sunset” scene. You might say this one is tenderer than most:

branded sheriff bumping his sore ass to tucson

And, no, I do not know why Red Gazelle decided to keep him.

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Like Mother, Like Daughter

Monday, May 31st, 2010 -- by Bacchus

Just a little vignette found on alt. binaries. pictures. erotica. cartoons. Note how the caption functions as one of your better short stories, cramming quite a bit of plot into a just a few words:

we must take advantage

“Well, young man, it was extremely thoughtless of my daughter to leave you like this…but we must all learn to make the most of life’s little opportunities, mustn’t we?”

Artist is Rodzo.

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Happy Panda, Sad Panda

Sunday, April 25th, 2010 -- by Bacchus

I sometimes regret that Kink.com stopped updating their Men in Pain site and instead launched Divine Bitches as their flagship for femdom. “Bitches” is a word you don’t see very often here on ErosBlog, because I don’t find bitchiness erotic (with a side order of “I don’t deploy that word lightly, especially against women I don’t know”). Not being aroused by bitches disqualifies me, I suppose, from the target market for your typical female-dominant internet porn site. It’s a pity, though, because those fem-dom ladies do sometimes have some cool costumes!

Case in point, Lorelei Lee and Felony, dressed as nurses from Hell (or, if not from Hell, then from the world’s most unsanitary hospital):

evil femdom nurses in dirty latex

In this little morality play, our evil nurses get their hands on (no, pardon me, in femdom-speak I guess they “dig their claws into”) Zak Tyler, who seems unaccountably happy. Perhaps he does not apprehend his true peril?

rubber nurses seducing their prey

You know where this is going, though. By committing poorly-specified atrocities upon his happy bits, it doesn’t take them long to turn that smile upside down. Talk about a rapid attitude adjustment:

male victim of femdom nurses

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Divine Bitches: They Have Cake!

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009 -- by Bacchus

The whole commercial femdom kink is obscure to me because I’m basically in the Bitchy Jones camp regarding it; although I “get” the idea of domination and submission as potentially hot whichever way you draw the power arrows, I’m left cold by the memes of worthlessness and humiliation on the part of the submissive. Although these memes appear often in female-submissive porn, they are not universally seen as essential to it, and you can find plenty of porn that eschews it; whereas commercial female-dominant porn still pays homage almost universally to the idea that a submissive man must be some sort of worthless sniveling worm. Maybe that’s what the paying customer wants, and if so, may he take pleasure in it; but I don’t understand it well enough to represent it fairly here, so I usually don’t try.

The new Divine Bitches site from Kink.com may nonetheless be of interest to ErosBlog readers, because like the Men In Pain site it replaces and incorporates, it features some very attractive models and stylish erotic photography. (I’ve shared Men In Pain photography on ErosBlog at least half a dozen times before.) You don’t need to agree with the Divine Bitches front page (where it says “just visiting the site, men acknowledge that they are worms, and accept the absolute truth of female supremacy”) to appreciate beautiful pictures of strong women:

divine bitches bride with riding crop

divine bitches handcuffed bondage groom gets wedding cake rubbed on his face

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Trouble In The Mail Room

Friday, January 23rd, 2009 -- by Bacchus

Somebody looks to be in trouble in the mail room. The bad kind of trouble, or the good kind? We can’t see his face, so there’s no way to tell:

trouble in the mailroom

From Men In Pain.

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Santa The Satyr

Friday, December 21st, 2007 -- by Bacchus

I was pretty entertained to discover that somebody went and used Photoshop to update and modernize (whilst leaving unchanged the essence of) a hairy old folk tradition that’s long been near and dear to ErosBlog:

santa claus seduced and stripped by nymphs - with apologies to William-Adolphe Bouguereau and his nymphs and satyr

Notice they are stripping him. Imagine a chorus of high female voices like you’d hear in Castle Anthrax: “But Santa! But Santa! It’s so warm and sunny here! We must get you out of that horrid fur and make you more comfortable! Much more comfortable…”

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Femdom Bondage Whipping

Saturday, September 15th, 2007 -- by Bacchus

A reader who wishes to remain anonymous sent in the following bit of vintage femdom art, which is probably attributable to the artist “Jim” and to the second quarter of the 20th century. Since the ladies who frequent this blog are always clamoring for more dick, I figured some Saturday morning whippin’ and drippin’ would not be out of order.

man whipped in bondage and enjoying it

The first thing that struck me about this drawing… no, scratch that.

After I got over the whole male panic thing (“aah, balls, don’t be showing me balls, and especially don’t be beating on THE BALLS!“), the first thing that struck me about this drawing was the cruelty of the foot bondage. That wall could be fourteen inches high and his posture wouldn’t be much different, not with cables cinched tight around his Achilles tendons to enforce the tippy-toed stance.

The second thing that struck me is that this is that it’s another area where the march of technology has marched onwards since the picture was drawn. Are you sadly deficient in dungeon space? Does your bedroom lack thirty extra square feet in which to erect a permanent five-foot wooden bulwark that’s bolted down with iron strapping? Well, you’re in luck! Because these days, there’s a handy portable equivalent called The Humbler. It’s a bulwark in a box — just snap it around the balls and behind the thighs and you’re in business. Complete with bonus electrodes for (shudder) double bonus fun.

At this point I’d normally be talking about the miracle of technology and how great it is that everything gets smaller over time. Unfortunately I’m still distracted by the faint voice in my head that’s still screaming “Aaiieee, not the BALLS!”

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FemDom Gor

Friday, May 11th, 2007 -- by Bacchus

I gotta quote Bitchy Jones again. Unlike most of the folks who love to hate the splendidly cheesy literary phenomenon that is Gor, she gets why those books sold about a zillion copies and still go for megabucks on eBay, gets it well enough that’s she’s moved to give it a complete “vertical flip” in her mental fantasy editing software:

Gor is easy to take the piss out of, but the real truth is that deep down in my heart I know that if I were a male dom I would fucking love Gor to tiny bits. I would be in those chat rooms wanking and sweating and wanking some more while some middle aged housewife going through an identity crisis talked about herself in third person whilst pretending to serve me a mythical drink.

Yeah, like every other person in the world who believes in equality but gets off on inequity, I have the insane conflicted love for a bit of gender supremacy fantasy and I secretly in my dark heart wish that we had something as ridiculously camp and ritualised and sprawling as Gor over on our side of the river.

So, basically, it’s all hot and dusty and badly written and stuff. Women live in big castles and are tough and sexy and mean. But fair and honourable. And, yeah, they’re sexy, but it’s no big deal, no one’s looking at them because:

OMG the hot slaves!

Literally and metaphorically hot. Built like Greek gods and covered in sweat (from doing hard *hard* labour).

Yes, the men are, like the women’s slaves. Oh a few aren’t, but they’re weird. But also hot if you capture them and make them be slaves. So although these not-slave men are freaks they are kind of useful when complicity gets dull ’cause they have to be all *forced* and broken and whipped to shit and stuff.

Gosh, isn’t *forced* a nice word.

Anyway, on upside down Gor slave men are traded — bought and sold. There are markets. Men who transgress are punished. Viciously, mercilessly and publicly. (Which is nice.) Or maybe just punished for entertainment. Such awful punishments, predicament bondage and heavily ritualised whipping and stocks and cages and stuff like that. Really dehumanising hot stuff.

Some of the poor things are just kicked around like dogs, or made to whore themselves on the streets, butchly pretty ones wear humiliating skimpy clothes and get prodded to perform bondagey semi-naked suggestive dances with whipping. While drunken women molest them. And they would have to do all this over elaborate honourific address stuff, please, ma’am, may this slave please have permission to…

Golly, I really do like ma’am in the right context. It’s the apostrophe. You can see where his voice cracks even when the word is written on the page.

Anyway, they better get that formal address stuff right or else more whipping. Yeah. Pretty much any excuse for the whipping. And the, you know, submissive positions to vocal commands, and the bondage and… did I already say the bondage? Well I should probably say it a few times because there is so much of it.

Oh, and the key thing is that by doing this they would come to realise that they had never felt more masculine or desirable than when, er, being whipped, and sexually used and whipped a bit more.

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Poor Old Tom

Tuesday, January 9th, 2007 -- by Bacchus

I love it when artists (unknown, in this case; picture found at Edinburgh Erotica) dirty up the old cartoon characters. In this case, it looks like a spot of “forced feminization” for poor old Tom (don’t he clean up nice?) and a little strap-on action. Trust Jerry, he’s holding Tom’s tail out of the way, and probably looking around for the bottle of Habenero lube:

mice make bad enemies

Update: Looks like the artist is “Bathgate 21” or maybe just Bathgate.

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The Mistress Guide

Wednesday, August 30th, 2006 -- by Bacchus

Here’s a fun article that may be of use to a number of you ladies: Miss Vanilla’s Guide to Being A Mistress. It’s a sort of Intro To Femdom 101:

I call it “Miss Vanilla’s” guide because I really want to give people who don’t consider themselves kinky a chance to enjoy this. When I first started getting into it, I was awfully confused and intimidated by the idea of being “dominant.” Would I lose my femininity? Would it make my man less masculine? Would it sour our non-sexual relationship? I will approach all of this from the perspective of someone beginning anew, as best as I can.

Techniques! What are some fun ways to let your man know that you’re in control?

“Bondage”. One of the easiest ways to get started is by tying him up. Pros: He’s physically helpless, so you get to focus on breaking his will with your sexiness. Cons: His hands aren’t free, so you have to take a very active role – you can’t easily kill time telling him to pleasure you with his hands!

“Pleasure overload.” Let’s face it: Your man thinks you’re hot. Now you’re going to use that to your utter advantage! Make him DESPERATE. Caress his entire body – with your fingers, your tongue, or your feet! Trace your fingertips up his inner thighs. Trace spirals around his penis but don’t touch it yet. Tease his butt, if you’re into that kind of thing (more on that later). Lick, suck and bite his nipples. Tease his dick with your mouth. Exhale deeply into his ear, and suck his earlobes. Be sexy, and he WILL be yours!

 

Femdom Manga, With Cigarette

Monday, July 31st, 2006 -- by Bacchus

Dominant women smoking cigarettes (and doing mean, mean things with them) are a frequent theme in “femdom” porn, especially from places like Japan where smoking seems to remain a bit more “cool” than it has become in the United States. Here’s a fragment from a manga comic panel featuring a vulnerably posed naked man and a domina poised to extinguish her smoke:

mistress menacing male bondage slave with cigarette to his balls

You can see the whole panel here, but don’t click unless you’re prepared to wince and shudder.

Found in the alt. binaries. pictures. erotica. cartoons newsgroup on Usenet.

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Painfully Beautiful

Wednesday, May 10th, 2006 -- by Bacchus

This photograph of the incredibly edible Annie Cruz is one of those pictures that strikes you (well, it struck me) half-dumb from the sheer beauty of the model:

beautiful Annie Cruz and her lovely breasts

As the man in the bejeweled turban said: “Have that one bathed and sent to my tent.”

Er, Pasha? Begging your eminence’s pardon, but there may be a slight flaw in that plan.

It turns out that Annie is seen here mistressing in the Men In Pain femdom dungeons. If he’s not careful, our would-be acquisitive sheik could find himself tied by the balls to his own tent peak. But not, perhaps, without a bit of tenderness:

the not-so-tender femdom mercies of Annie Cruz

Even if you aren’t the sort of man who normally enjoys having a woman tie him up and be mean to him, the full shoot of Annie in action suggests that perhaps it wouldn’t be all bad….

 

A Delicious Amazon-Tarzan Sammich

Monday, December 26th, 2005 -- by Bacchus

I love this Frank Frazetta illustration showing an unhappy Tarzan being “woman-handled” by two muscular-yet-utterly-delicious Amazons:

Tarzan between two yummy blonde amazons

He just looks so disgruntled….

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More Patriarchal BDSM Porn (Not)

Friday, September 30th, 2005 -- by Bacchus

From Usenet:

severe mystery woman with cane

Update: Added sardonic “not” to the post title because people were not catching the sarcasm.

 

So This Is What It Feels Like To Stand To Stud

Monday, August 22nd, 2005 -- by Aphrodite

They line up before me, awaiting my service.

In and out, in and out, in and out. Sometimes a little wiggling is required to get the job done. I’m happy to oblige. Whatever it takes……

In and out, on and on.

Woman with Red Strap-On

Did I look like this? (Artwork from Femdom Art Collection.)
Alas, no. I was helping a friend drill holes in sheet metal.

 

Hillary Looking Sexy

Friday, August 6th, 2004 -- by Bacchus

About ten months ago I asked:

Does anybody have, or have a link to, a really good high-quality scan of that Spy Magazine cover from 1992 or thereabouts that featured Hillary [Clinton] Photoshopped into an impressive dominatrix outfit?

There was a resounding silence.

Fortunately, The Boss at The Collar Purple had better luck:

hillary in dominatrix costume on cover of Spy magazine

I’d still like a really hi-res scan, if anybody’s got one.

Update: It gets better.

Hillary Clinton photoshopped in a fishnets leather and latex femdom mistress costume on the cover of Spy

 

Government Porn

Thursday, May 13th, 2004 -- by Bacchus

I’ve been tempted. Yes I have. I can’t deny it. When the government gets into the porn business, and makes a product that looks like surprisingly high-quality femdom and/or gay porn, it’s tough for a sex blogger to avoid comment. But I’ve been holding back.

I’ve written before about the reasons why “sexual atrocities are featured much less often on this blog than they might be.” Matisse makes the point much more succinctly. She has a wise policy: “I don’t eroticise non-consensual violence.” And this blog is, for the most part, supposed to be erotic.

Troll my archives, you might find a few places where I arguably have eroticised sexual atrocities. What can I say? Mistakes were made. I take full responsibility.

Whuh? No, I don’t think so. Of course nobody is going to lose their job over this. Are you nuts? Resign? Why bother, I already took responsibility, didn’t you hear me?

 

Cock Under Lock

Wednesday, January 7th, 2004 -- by Bacchus

When I first got an email from D about his new “Cock Under Lock” BlogSpot blog, my first thought was “eh, that’s about 180 degrees backwards for a sex blog, isn’t it?” But as it happens, the device appears to come off fairly frequently. Apparently D’s lady merely got tired of sharing him with his extensive porno collection. Except on her terms:

I was making a joke referencing a porno I owned, and that E found somewhat repulsive, called “Ass Cream Pies“. At one point describing the kind of cum eating some of the girls do in that movie (read the description if you want to know) . E was so abhorred by this, she said, “that’s it! I’m tying you up and making you drink a shotglass of your own cum. So you can know what it’s like”. I was both turned on by this but also knew that I would not want to drink it after I came. But I was mostly turned on, and looking forward to getting some sort of release.

True to her word, when we got home I was promptly tied down again. She then decided as part of my punishment I would have to watch the Porno in question whilst I was imobilized. This went on for about 45 minutes. I was excited but unable to do anything to further my enjoyment. While this was going on E just sat on the computer doing online shopping and emailing. Eventually she proceeded to unlock the chastity device. I was already semi-hard, but once freed, became almost instantly erect. She started teasing me with light strokes, making me increasingly more rigid. I was as swelled up as I’ve ever seen myself. If that wasn’t enough she inserted the “Tristan” butt plug into my ass. She left the room for a moment and returned with a glass….

 

Sweet Sweet Femdom

Monday, October 13th, 2003 -- by Bacchus

It’s not at all unheard of for me to post BDSM-ish stuff on ErosBlog. However, I’m not sure I’ve ever posted any femdom (women dominating men) pictures. Why not? Well, what little fem/dom porn I’ve ever seen has had always had an extreme case of the common porn problem, namely, that the people shown in it too often aren’t smiling or appearing to have any fun. I’m a huge believer that porn in any genre is ten times as hot if the performers look like they are enjoying themselves.

Thus this rather cute drawing caught my eye, because it shows three lovely young blonde ladies having fun with a hapless but perhaps-not-unhappy young man. Two of the three ladies have pleased-looking smiles on their faces, and the lady with the whip looks more intense than mean:

cute femdom ladies

There’s a slightly larger version over at the “free” (lots of affiliate links, but no pop-ups that I saw) porn site where this turned up.

Update: Reader Melissa let me know that the artist is Sardax (at sardax.com ).

 

Politics As Usual

Wednesday, October 8th, 2003 -- by Bacchus

Somehow in light of yesterday’s political goings-on, tinged as they were by the warm whiff of sexual scandal, this cartoon seems fresh again:

hillary clinton whips monica lewinsky while bill clinton watches

Which reminds me, does anybody have, or have a link to, a really good high-quality scan of that Spy Magazine cover from 1992 or thereabouts that featured Hillary Photoshopped into an impressive dominatrix outfit?

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